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One year the United States there
are about half a million divorces

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and about a million men and women look
for lifelong happiness with each other

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that meant that they're not.

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It means many thousands of children
who need the security of a home

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and it means that for every
four couples who get married.

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One is divorced.

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It means that with every passing year
more American marriages face the problem.

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They are perhaps that means

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that the basic reasons for these
divorces proceed of the marriages.

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Why did this Johnny
couple wind up in court.

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Why did it have to happen this way for
them. Whose fault was it. What was wrong.

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Wasn't that love was a body
before they became bride

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and groom they used to love.

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Did you ever see such a day can grandma
used to say it's so healthy around here

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they had this huge demand
a static graveyard.

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They say Johnny Appleseed when by the way.

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One day you will open up a whole new world
for me how can a ring he greets so high.

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Business Risk looking in
unusual and then expensive to.

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Can I can hardly wait for his family to
get away will be such fun to be together

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all the time and will be so close
to everything in New York.

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I can tell it in foreign films

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and well even see the ocean for the first
time I can feel the view razorblades

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lying down the fellas being one of us
a lucky thing friend found it a two

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and a half off campus.
So what do we put in it.

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Well that little Picasso
sketch I picked up

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that goes in the living
room is a masterpiece

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and the bendix you take care of the
homemaking I look after the books

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and records tell male supremacy Now
Professor It doesn't go with your salary

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can feel like baby you're your
own I hadn't thought of it.

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Are you insured can you know why. Well
we know so awfully little about one.

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Don't we

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wouldn't it be nice if we could just wander
up a road like this with never a care.

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Oh yes darling the Sunday we've
got to stop and think things out.

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Sure but I'm off a longer right now.

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Well come on

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in my own days as a woman and so she
catches him. You can this is just.

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As you can muster Thank you. Farhad Yes
that's just not everything I can recall.

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With you know that nothing has changed.

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As of course not just a mystery to you as
mysteriously black I wanted to state his

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way through every New

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York in the grass whole grand international
confabulation with the sun while my

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and a stumble or finder goes on a can

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that beautiful your great writing
teacher great writing what if

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that was your most famous
boy tender guy I know

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but can you're going
to be greater than he.

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You're going to be one of the most famous
novelist in America if I ever get the

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novel right. What do you mean.

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Now of course you'll have depends on how
easy you are to catch with a typewriter.

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I never run away from you. Not really.

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I sometimes you do I think I've
caught the way you talk or feel but

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when I try to put the words on
paper they don't ring true.

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I realize

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that I don't know you well enough to
recreate you you will have all the faith in

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the world in you

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when I do you always have
to pick things. Why not.

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You see a flower or you think
it's Samberg you with me.

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I see a flower

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and I want to wear it in
my hair could invade.

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Nature was kind. I like
consummate I wish you'd take off.

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That's how to ensure my freckles.

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You know exactly how good the
girls in New Orleans are facts.

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You know they stay out of the sun.

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Well I didn't I used to tumble around

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and climb fences if you want
to see the scars on my knee.

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If you're stuck to like the same
as you have. Can I found a viewer.

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Are can I like your laugh
you laugh with you.

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You know when you're a hundred. I'll be a
hundred and I want to die before you do.

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The right to say Love me or I
die than I actually love me

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or I Q.

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Oh Mr instructor if your
students could only see you now.

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Why did you have a good time
Wonderful have got to change.

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At first I thought it was
only a summer romance.

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Ken would soon be going back to his
regular teaching job in the east.

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But I was wrong. I like him. All right.

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But I feel more comfortable with Joe we
know the same step like the same books.

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He could have gotten gauged
to so many nice boys in town.

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That used to shower with
attention put him on a pedestal.

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I guess they were too easy to get.

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Sometimes I think he just
wants to get away from home.

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But that's when they all weekend
for something beyond her reach.

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She has to know as much or
more than anybody else.

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No wonder they gave her a job in the
dean's office when she graduated.

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She was a star in her own little world.

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She could breathe life
into the Dallas routine.

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She made things go the
way she wanted them to.

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The girl who loved her. She was
owed. Turning in help because.

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I was sure she wouldn't give it
up for anything in the world

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and she seemed to be made for a career.

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Jump around so I look a mess.

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You never looked better

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and I to show you some of Can friends are
coming in from the Today I'm going to be

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proud of me.

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I have a good time.

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I mean it's all said I
still can't believe.

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Don't worry when I got the
most charming of them all.

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Can I know where I can get you
some lovely very functional.

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American and you can trust money or
taste as Polish. Why don't we go watch.

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Peter while they plan a home.

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Oh I wouldn't I might lose my head to
tell a friend about you know is it is.

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Yes I can. I didn't know you had a
genius you just haven't appreciated it.

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It won't be long before the whole world
knows the real. To tell me about it.

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I'd rather not a little
late brother. So we go.

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Don't you think we make a charming couple.

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I didn't make an impression.

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He did all I wanted so much to do
the right thing. But I felt so.

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So let's show

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that could happen to anybody can I be all
like brain intellectuals' you mean no no.

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You're imagining that when
you'll get used to them.

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It'll take time to get
elevated to her level is

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that what you mean I can
now can you sit there

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and he says a period on account
of course you do anything

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but you can't expect me to give up.

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Randi they're my kind of people I'd hope

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that we'd be like oh I don't want to be
like her but what's the matter was fine

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and a dog and I think you better take
me home. If that's what you want. Sure.

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Why not.

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Look darling. Hasn't this gone a
little too far. It certainly has.

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But you can't expect me to be
on a different from what I am.

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Don't you expect to change even a little
after all I'm giving up everything in the

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world for you. But what if I don't. Right.

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Can you don't seem to realise
yourself how good you are. No wonder.

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Peter But I've never had anything
published. You're being unfair.

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Why because I want you to be famous.

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Again you don't realize how exciting a
writer's life can be there's no greatest

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thrill in the world can't be just a
college professors wife isn't that enough

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and play goes to your Hamlet. Oh no I'm
not going to sit at home with a full of.

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One thing count pennies are all
to myself to suit your friends.

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When it. And I love you but I'm
not going to let you change.

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You're not going to change me either.

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I've got to feel free to be myself
even after we're married well

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that goes for me too.

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He was in one of those moods
again and late as you.

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But he was very popular

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and nobody minded of course he
liked to hold his class outdoors

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when the weather was nice.

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He called it folk Arjun's
of American poetry but

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that one thirty one was more than
that really much more it read a lot

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and traveled widely and
with a brilliant lecture

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but he was too easy going there
was no discipline at all.

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He was so informal and so impersonal. I
didn't think he could belong to anyone.

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Used to invite me up to his room once in
a while I could never figure his game

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enjoy things much more than he enjoyed
making something of themselves.

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He liked talk about the
folklore of the country people.

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The dogs singers and the
musical instruments.

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He took pleasure in knew
their use and ideas

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and especially he liked the feeling of the
university world around him in never was

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called on to make any practical decision
he could go on thinking and dreaming

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and doing is deeply early one morning.

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Later I heard he went on a field trip with
Professor Gates lives gone for a day.

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He made sure it was way up
for no want to talk a great.

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His words.

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Where do you body they will linger any

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more tender it could be

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nothing to eat.

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You know he to want me to day.

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He's going to Rome

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and Lady Mary during

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Harold and eat. I couldn't
stand it any longer.

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Who told you that I was here.

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I had become that you I wouldn't have
known a moment's peace all my life

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but this is a hundred miles from nowhere.

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I kept thinking about the time I couldn't
sleep because Maisie from either. Can.

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We've got a chance to be happy.
Let's not throw it away.

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Are you sure I don't want to be sure
of anything except that you love me.

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But I treat you.

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No heat

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or today.

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You can put your I. Can i want to.

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To see us.

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I don't know together again we were
YOUR SOUL of leeway for everyone can

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not only one soul and when you marry for
love. Can your only source of justice.

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Are you going to feel
nice again you'll see

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that you're being an
angel about everything.

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And will never disagree about
anything you know never

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and you will forget my birthday
June twenty second and from it.

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You won't take me for granted. I promise
and you'll never get satin virus

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or never and well it's enough even real.

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Oh yes to like why do you say.

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Good looking healthy
clever a beautiful bride.

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She thinks she's in love with can.

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Intelligent gifted

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and certainly old enough to get married
to noise on mind it thinks he's in love

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with wanting it like
sort of a shift in this

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but he doesn't realize it can't
be bottled up and controlled.

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She likes his air of distinction

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but she wants him to accept her
taste is like her simplicity

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but he wants her to be sophisticated

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and understand his complexities at the
same time she likes his romantic moodiness

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but she wants him to be a steady provider
to be like so maternal Brown days

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but is not prepared to give up his
freedom to really enjoy them.

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He likes her efficient practicality.

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But he doesn't want to have his wings clipped
Philly is down to earth along whether

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she likes the idea of going to
live with him in a new community

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but she wants to be able or
to be like her own neighbors.

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She likes almost everything
she knows about him

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but lots of what she knows
is in her own and that.

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The nation is willing to promise the world

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but is probably on able
to give even himself.

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What a lovely picture this bride and groom
make they might have found each other

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but instead they have renamed strangers
ages a dream in the other's mind.

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They don't want to accept each other as
they really are they would rather change

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each other to satisfy their own ambitions.
That's why they're doomed to fail.